How Are You, India?

Behind every ‘I’m fine’, there’s a story. ‘How Are You, India?’ series is here to tell it.

Disclaimer: The stories and experiences shared in this series are personal accounts of real individuals. They are not medical advice, clinical guidance, or therapeutic prescriptions. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out to a qualified mental health professional. You can also contact Tele MANAS at 1-800 891 4416.

“Fine.” “Chal raha hai.” “Sab theek.”

We say some version of it a dozen times a day, to colleagues, relatives, the neighbour in the lift, and sometimes to ourselves. It’s quick, it’s polite, and it closes the conversation before it begins. It is also, more often than not, not the whole truth.

The truth is usually more complicated. It’s the morning when getting out of bed takes more effort than the day ahead. It’s the message you’ve read three times and still haven’t answered.

It’s the mother who hasn’t slept properly in months, the colleague smiling through a meeting with a knot in his chest, the woman in a village who has never once been asked how she is.

And so, The Better India brings you How Are You, India?, a storytelling series about the daily, imperfect work of looking after our emotional well-being and the people we love.

This isn’t a series of expert advice, and it isn’t about triumphant comebacks. There are no neat before-and-after arcs here. Instead, you’ll meet ordinary people doing small, steady things: making the phone call, setting the boundary, finally having the conversation. Some of it will look tiny from the outside. Often, it is anything but.

Here’s a look at what you can expect.

Why this is for you

You may be reading this because something has felt heavy lately, and you haven’t quite found the words for it. Or because someone you love has gone quiet, and you don’t know where to start. Or simply because you’re tired of “fine” being the only answer you’re allowed to give.

If so, this series is for you.

Conversations around mental health in the media often feel far removed from everyday Indian life. They tend to be clinical, urban, English-speaking or dramatic. But for most of us, emotional strain doesn’t look dramatic. It looks like financial worry, a caregiving load, loneliness, burnout, grief, exam pressure, or the constant need to “keep going.”

Here, you’ll find stories that sound like your life, told honestly, in plain language. You’ll find reassurance that you’re not the only one, and perhaps one small, practical idea you can borrow, whether you’re looking after yourself or someone else. You don’t need a label, a diagnosis or the right words to belong here.

Who’s looking after you?

Caregivers

For every person going through a hard time, someone is keeping watch. It might be a mother who learns to read the silence in her child’s room, a partner who rearranges an entire life, a friend who never stops picking up the phone, or a counsellor heading home after a very long shift.

This care is quiet, and it is costly. It is rarely thanked, and the people giving it are seldom asked how they are holding up.

In this section, we turn the lens towards them. We’ll hear from families who found their way through confusion and silence, friends who learnt what to say (and what not to), and carers who discovered that looking after someone else begins with not running yourself empty. Their stories speak of what sustains them, and what they wish someone had told them sooner.

How did you get through today?

Everyday struggles

Most bravery never makes the news. It lives in the crowded market, the endless to-do list, the commute, the bills, and the weight we carry through all of it, unseen, and face anyway.

This section is about how ordinary Indians keep going on hard days. For many, the hardest part isn’t a dramatic moment but the simple act of structuring an ordinary day. We’ll meet people who have built their own routines, rituals and small systems through years of trial and error, not from a book, but from learning what their own mind and body need.

For some, resilience is a morning walk or a to-do list broken into tiny pieces. For others, it’s therapy, medication, creativity, rest, a trusted friend, or simply getting through another day. Each story carries at least one practical insight: an observation, not a prescription.

How’s work, really?

Office life

Some of the hardest days are lived between 9 and 5: the presentation that keeps you awake at night, the “no” that stings more than it should, the Sunday-evening dread, the tiredness no amount of leave can fix.

Work takes up a vast share of our waking lives, and yet it’s where we’re often most practised at saying “all good.”

Here, we speak to people about how they steady themselves at work, from the colleague who quietly built a lunchtime ritual to the manager who learnt to ask a team member a different kind of question. We’ll also spotlight workplaces that are learning to hold their people better, not through slogans or posters, but through everyday choices.

How are the villages doing?

Beyond the city

Some people have never been asked how they are, not by the world around them and not by the systems meant to care for them.

In this section, we travel beyond the metros, to places the conversation hasn’t reached. LGBTQIA+ people, women, tribal communities and migrant workers share, in their own words, how they endure, heal and hold each other up.

These are stories of community, and of rituals and ways of looking out for one another that existed long before the vocabulary of wellness did.

We’ll tell these stories with care, in the words and the way our storytellers choose.

How we’ll tell these stories

Expect long reads, short personal essays, photo stories and quick, shareable pieces. Wherever it helps, experts will explain what works in jargon-free language, but they will never be the centre of the story. That place belongs to the person living it.

We’ve made a few promises to ourselves. We won’t tell you what to do; we’ll tell you what someone did, and you can take what’s useful. We won’t use anyone’s distress as a hook. And we won’t pretend there’s a finish line, because looking after one’s mind isn’t a puzzle solved once and put away. It’s an ongoing negotiation, and it looks different for everyone, every day.

A corner of the internet that feels safe

Alongside the stories, we’re opening a space on social media at #HowAreYouIndia: a corner of the internet that feels safe and familiar, and gently nudges you to check in with yourself. Read, reflect, send a story to a friend you’ve been meaning to call, or simply let someone know you’re thinking of them.

So, how are you, really?

We hope this series makes it a little easier to ask, a little easier to answer honestly, and a little easier to carry things together.

And we’d like to hear from you. Every answer to “How Are You, India?” is different, and every one matters. If your story is still waiting to be told, we are ready to listen.

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